Maura Murray

Are you a female Advocator and are you pissing on all men? Wow!!! lets see what you say about men?

Advocator just made herself look like a real Moron!!! Imagine if I said that all women on this forun are whiners and Bithches? Imagine the shit I would get? Wo - I lost all respect for you tonight because I don't diss the opposite sex.

Hope you post tonight advocator- By the way - I never felt any bad waves from you as I never new if you were male or female.

JWB has never taken it to a sexist angle ever!!!

Advocate please explain

Advocator wrote:

Has anyone noticed how nearly all the whiners and complainers and crybabies on this forum are (gasp)men (or say they are)? I wonder why that is.

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explain yourself please

Just something I've noticed. No intent to diss anyone in particular, I named no names ... however, if the shoe fits ....

It's just my observation that it seems to mostly be males in this forum who fuss and complain, call people names, call people out, and follow those tangents on and on and on,'way off topic.

Not saying no women on here have ever done the same thing, but can't think of any in a long while, so it looks mostly like a testosterone issue.

Advocator wrote:

Just something I've noticed. No intent to diss anyone in particular, I named no names ... however, if the shoe fits ....
It's just my observation that it seems to mostly be males in this forum who fuss and complain, call people names, call people out, and follow those tangents on and on and on,'way off topic.
Not saying no women on here have ever done the same thing, but can't think of any in a long while, so it looks mostly like a testosterone issue.

wait a minute ? isn't that what women have fought for? Steryotype?

I do not intentionally put womwn down and i actually though you were a guy (ask Amy) Idon't look at it that way. FYI I work with all women and get along great.

I think there is an issue- guy/gal sure but i neve thought of it being present here at least with me.

Advocator wrote:

Just something I've noticed. No intent to diss anyone in particular, I named no names ... however, if the shoe fits ....
It's just my observation that it seems to mostly be males in this forum who fuss and complain, call people names, call people out, and follow those tangents on and on and on,'way off topic.
Not saying no women on here have ever done the same thing, but can't think of any in a long while, so it looks mostly like a testosterone issue.

I haven't seen any discremination there- Bill has dumped on me and jenkins etc while sticking up for wowzer and Snowey? Not sure what you are saying = thoughti know It does exist in the real world( Both ways).

I wish we could all get along period!!! I am here because i drove by the blue ribbon and aske d m wife what that was all about. Well she told me and after that I couldn't let go. The Bottom line for me is whistins first post.

Wowzer trashed me over and over- asking how can a marriedf male at my age care about someome i don't know. I say - OMG_ If you knew me the you would understand that i care about others before myself/

Where is maura ? That is what bugs me. I really care about others and I am sorry you can't feel the same way . It is not entertainment to me!!! This is someones sister,daughter, cousin.

Just looking at my typing and it is not great- I do the one finger plucking deal and don't read before I hit send.

I am not picking on anyone at all- To say I am sexist is just wrong OMG That post was meant for me advocator cause i was the only one posting.!! You couldn;t be more wrong with my occupation and to put it like you did just really doesn't help males and females get along.

JWB is looking for someome to talk and say hey JW b whats up?
Chat with me and I won'tbe defensive etc-- Am I right or wrong thats all. I don't claim to be right- just chatttin.

stop the flames and peanuts and say whats UP? simple talk- I wan't to now how you feel. I might be wrong in what am I saying. Just want to hear your toughts.

JWB wrote:

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I haven't seen any discremination there- Bill has dumped on me and jenkins etc while sticking up for wowzer and Snowey? Not sure what you are saying = thoughti know It does exist in the real world( Both ways).

I'm not saying guys are dumping on gals, I'm saying it looks to me like it is mostly guys who come on here and dump -- on other posters, regardless of gender. And tend to go on and on about it. Can't say it once and be done with it, it gets carried like a flag for hours or days. The only reason I can think of to do things like that is to provoke a confrontation, get into an argument and try to slam the other party down.

Gives a whole new meaning to the term "head bangers".

JWB - is a diferent breed- Since I was young I always cared about others and new it. My mom went into the hospital when I was one years old, and she was there for a year for cancer. Yea- I early on had a issue with missing people and I do today. My Mom , Dad, sister are gone Yes, I still do suffer from it. I really miss my mom-dad- sister and friend that died from Cancer.

We all have those issues right? But Damn it it hurts. I care about oththers is what I am saying. Bottom line it is al that matters. Care-give- compassion.

Advocator wrote:

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I'm not saying guys are dumping on gals, I'm saying it looks to me like it is mostly guys who come on here and dump -- on other posters, regardless of gender. And tend to go on and on about it. Can't say it once and be done with it, it gets carried like a flag for hours or days. The only reason I can think of to do things like that is to provoke a confrontation, get into an argument and try to slam the other party down.
Gives a whole new meaning to the term "head bangers".

I don't see it that way but I guess i understand your view. I am Not looking at it that way. I respect women. I work with all women and yea it can get testy but its all good cause I love them lol

Thank you Advovator for your conversation etc.. It is about maura but bottom line it is about eachother,
Think about it- Life is nothing without .That is why I care about someone I don't know. Why am I questioned abut why I care I don't get it.

JWB...I, and MANY others feel the same and agree with you. I am an elderly female who has ties with that area all my life. Only when I started to express my thoughts and opionions about Maura's fate was it noted that it wasn't, or shouldn't be, "any of my business".
There is an under current of sensitivity and distrust.

One small incident, recently I commented to a relative that seemingly there was minimal newspaper coverage of Maura other than the Caledonian..AND that one of the rookies that night was now Chief. Wish I could express in words how quiet and cold the next moments were.