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citigirl wrote: <quoted text>You have made interpertations concerning this letter. Does it mean you are correct? No. Maybe her siblings should have contacted you to proof read there letter so you could tell them how you think they should have written the letter and what you think they should say to please you. Maybe you should contact the siblings before you post. They don't like posting on forums as they said, and hard to think they would allow you to do so, unless ofcourse you wrote what they wanted? I'd assume you'd be respectful of the siblings wishes to stop typing on a forum if asked, and I'm assuming they allow you to type because you serve some type of agenda by arguing, and omitting certain information? Do I need to send an email to Julie or is this a safe enough assumption?
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Snowy
Gloucester, MA
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BillNH wrote: Totally agree Snowy. Renner may be wrong about some things in the end but he certainly is not afraid to put it out there for all to see. I agree also that your inquiries are presented in an intelligent and respectful manner. More so than anyone else I have seen in my short time here. So intelligent in fact I have to work to read them sometimes just to follow your thought process.(that's a good thing, and a FACT):) often, i'm a little wordy...sometimes a lot wordy. i accept your kind compliment, and am grateful for your presence. ;)
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mcsmom
Marlborough, NH
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Lighthouse 101 wrote: <quoted text> Maybe you should contact the siblings before you post. They don't like posting on forums as they said, and hard to think they would allow you to do so, unless ofcourse you wrote what they wanted? I'd assume you'd be respectful of the siblings wishes to stop typing on a forum if asked, and I'm assuming they allow you to type because you serve some type of agenda by arguing, and omitting certain information? Do I need to send an email to Julie or is this a safe enough assumption? No need to email Julie, here's what she wrote: " journalism and social media outlets are great methods to keep the case in the public eye,"
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Since: Mar 13
Woodsville, NH
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citigirl wrote: <quoted text>Go back to the beginning and reread. Although we disagree as to what happened to Maura the one that has posted in the most respectful manner toward me as to what I have posted and think happened to Maura is WTH. I agree that WTH is very respectful as well. I don't need to reread, actually, since I stated my opinion, from my perspective. I would not expect your perspective to be the same.
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Snowy
Gloucester, MA
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here's a thought....as an offshoot to reading some of the comments at J Renner's blog today. seems like some people think they've been misled by FB censoring and by the lack of honesty coming from MM's family....even when reasonable and caring individuals want to allow for privacy considerations and sensitivity to this family's loss. people expect to hear and read the truth from a family when they appeal to the public to find a lost loved one. or a murdered loved one. after all, who knows better than family about their loved one? in the early days, some very well meaning posters swallowed everything whole. some of those statements made from the MM camp were suspicious then, and have been proven inaccurate and / or false since. the word "credibility" comes into play here. very good people were punished and, in fact, turned away from posting on the original forum(s)....because they began to question statements presented as "facts" that never quite added up. some of that behavior probably continues on FB today. Maura is still likable, respected for her accomplishments, and there is concern that she be found. it is a myth and an excuse that the public would have cared less for her if they knew about her flaws early on. if there is more to her story, then there is more; so be it. but the public doesn't like to be duped.
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Snowy wrote: SNIPPED is this an implied or actual threat to "sources" of "derogatory facts" (along with "any persons of interest") that they shall endure "the same level of scrutiny" for the purpose of discrediting them for bringing unflattering information about MM or her family forward? does this not comport with the vigilance in the original, monitored MM forum and in the current FB format where negative comments are squashed? the family statement implies retaliation more than an effort stop rumors and establish facts. what if the "derogatory facts" are true...or partially true? why are the "derogatory facts", themselves, not wholly dismissed as fabrications if they are untrue? why is there assumed to be a motivation other than to help "find Maura Murray"? indeed, it is a fine line for anyone to walk, whether family, acquaintance or stranger... but maintaining the integrity of the official investigation is not mentioned, which would seem very important. comment - anyone? Could not agree more, Snowy. Nor could I put it any better. I read that the same way you did...
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citigirl wrote: <quoted text>Dont you find it rather odd that he was supposedly given info last week and not giving it to LE until Monday. No, I don't, and here's why. I don't think that he has found out anything that could be construed as time-sensitive. I'm sure it's something of past transgressions or perceived wrongdoings in the past. There's very little chance that the information he has uncovered has any bearing on a current situation - i.e., someone currently under duress,- and therefore, isn't pressing. It's more than likely that he is waiting for the weekend to pass and then he is going to take action. This could be for any number of reasons: Plans on the weekend, his contact at LE isn't in the office on weekends, etc. None of the aforementioned reasons are in any way nefarious. JMO
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Snowy
Gloucester, MA
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Could not agree more, Snowy. Nor could I put it any better. I read that the same way you did... i was hoping you'd have an opinion about the letter Maruchan shared with us, as i value your input. and i was also grateful you stepped in to affirm FrmLE's position on conduct / responsibility for reporting after an accident in NH.
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> No, I don't, and here's why. I don't think that he has found out anything that could be construed as time-sensitive. I'm sure it's something of past transgressions or perceived wrongdoings in the past. There's very little chance that the information he has uncovered has any bearing on a current situation - i.e., someone currently under duress,- and therefore, isn't pressing. It's more than likely that he is waiting for the weekend to pass and then he is going to take action. This could be for any number of reasons: Plans on the weekend, his contact at LE isn't in the office on weekends, etc. None of the aforementioned reasons are in any way nefarious. JMO Simply - The timing of Julie's post and what the post stated is worth noting. It touched apon a couple points - if you know anything about the case even if you think its about a family member tell LE - Be careful who you take information from regarding this case because of their background - Tell the FBI and would a family if they were guilty ask for the FBI involvement. She did post a couple other points - but when James writes "I'm going to inform LE" its his way a shooting back to Julie and Co. that he has info, he's going to tell LE and also post it. My theory is Tim C told James something and Julie and Co. want Tim C discredited - and also want to solidify their position that family wants FBI so how could they have done anything wrong. I think Tim C gave Renner a statement about one of the many facts that never made any sense when this case was in its infacy. Just my opinion
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Habs
Canada
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Snowy wrote: here's a thought....as an offshoot to reading some of the comments at J Renner's blog today. seems like some people think they've been misled by FB censoring and by the lack of honesty coming from MM's family....even when reasonable and caring individuals want to allow for privacy considerations and sensitivity to this family's loss. people expect to hear and read the truth from a family when they appeal to the public to find a lost loved one. or a murdered loved one. after all, who knows better than family about their loved one? in the early days, some very well meaning posters swallowed everything whole. some of those statements made from the MM camp were suspicious then, and have been proven inaccurate and / or false since. the word "credibility" comes into play here. very good people were punished and, in fact, turned away from posting on the original forum(s)....because they began to question statements presented as "facts" that never quite added up. some of that behavior probably continues on FB today. Maura is still likable, respected for her accomplishments, and there is concern that she be found. it is a myth and an excuse that the public would have cared less for her if they knew about her flaws early on. if there is more to her story, then there is more; so be it. but the public doesn't like to be duped. Exactly. Well said.
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Since: Mar 13
Woodsville, NH
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I guess everyone is taking a breather. I get the feeling things are going to develop rather quickly in the coming days. Maybe I am just being hopeful. I doubt however, that there is a smoking gun about to be revealed. Most likely will just raise more unanswered questions. I am not optimistic.
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Rod Stiffington
Crab Orchard, KY
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Renner is about to blow this case wide open.
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Maruchan wrote: It is very apparent that those of you who say things like "I really hope it's not what I am thinking(and have thought since day one of my interested in this case)" and "Hope it's not true" do, in fact, hope very much that these allegations against Fred Murray ARE true. Why is it, I wonder, that not one of you have quoted or discussed this, from Julie Murray, daughter of the man who is being utterly trashed by James Renner: "Is he a hardass? Yes. Did he drive us hard? Yes. Is he the best father a girl could have? Yes." Why? Why are you all going with Renner's insinuations? Why are you ignoring the words of his daughter, choosing to believe the words of an "author" who clearly has a grudge against Fred Murray and the Murray family because they will not talk to him? "Information was given to me last week that seems to confirm what I've long suspected about Fred." Did anybody actually read this? Did anybody notice the words "seems to"? Seems to confirm is not the same as confirm. What James Renner suspects about Fred is simply his suspicion, it has NOTHING to do with fact, and everything to do with his own personal biases against Fred. Why is it that I seem to be only one who is disturbed by this campaign to malign and smear Fred Murray? I do not know the Murray family. I was not a member of any past forums, so I do not have any history or biases against ANYBODY, unlike most posters here. The only bias I have now is against James Renner, and that is because he peppers his 1% facts with 99% suppositions, most of which are directed at smearing Fred Murray. Don't you have any compassion at all for a man who is being accused of an improper relationship with his daughter without any proof of any kind? What is wrong with you people?!? I don't agree that the Murrays should be keeping certain information secret about this case, but neither do I agree that such withholding of information means they should be persecuted in such a horrible, permanently damaging way by people who are pissed off and looking for revenge. I am totally disgusted by this whole thing. All you longtimers who rail against the injuries dealt to the Woodsville area and people, who decry the "witchhunt" against the SBD, are absolutely no better. You are all doing the exact same thing against Fred Murray and the Murray family. All of you who are leaping on the Fred Murray pervert bandwagon, especially James Renner, should be ashamed of yourselves. Maruchan, My only point of contention regarding that carefully crafted, well-worded letter, is the inference I draw from this statement: "We feel all sources of information, along with any persons of interest, should endure the same level of scrutiny to determine if derogatory facts exist which may call their credibility into question." The subtle point that shines through to me, at least, is that 'SOURCES of information...endure..level of scrutiny to determine if derogatory facts exist which may call their credibility into question.' That part throws me, a bit. I can understand why any family member would think it, but putting it out there in a letter to the general public somewhat sounds like a thinly-veiled warning: If you come forward, be ready for your past to be called into question. I do understand that wasn't stated outright. I get that I am drawing a conclusion. But, I think it's a correct one. I think they may be sick and tired of people dragging their name through the mud, their father, even... And yet, it raises me eyebrows, nevertheless. That's just my respectfully-stated (I hope!) opinion. I would love for Fred to have had NOTHING to do with this. I have no opinion on that matter, one way or the other. I don't have enough data in the public domain (do any of us?) to state unequivocally, one way or the other. As WTH has stated in the past - or words to this effect - you can't prove a negative. So, there we are. SS
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Maruchan, My only point of contention regarding that carefully crafted, well-worded letter, is the inference I draw from this statement: "We feel all sources of information, along with any persons of interest, should endure the same level of scrutiny to determine if derogatory facts exist which may call their credibility into question." The subtle point that shines through to me, at least, is that 'SOURCES of information...endure..level of scrutiny to determine if derogatory facts exist which may call their credibility into question.' That part throws me, a bit. I can understand why any family member would think it, but putting it out there in a letter to the general public somewhat sounds like a thinly-veiled warning: If you come forward, be ready for your past to be called into question. I do understand that wasn't stated outright. I get that I am drawing a conclusion. But, I think it's a correct one. I think they may be sick and tired of people dragging their name through the mud, their father, even... And yet, it raises me eyebrows, nevertheless. That's just my respectfully-stated (I hope!) opinion. I would love for Fred to have had NOTHING to do with this. I have no opinion on that matter, one way or the other. I don't have enough data in the public domain (do any of us?) to state unequivocally, one way or the other. As WTH has stated in the past - or words to this effect - you can't prove a negative. So, there we are. SS SS ~ in a word - retaliation. and it is exactly what they / or their representatives have practiced for some time. it is an odd and very hostile approach to their supposedly uncovering clues to the whereabouts of their loved one. my background isn't legal....but my brain was immediately engaged. the words are carefully crafted, and finally, an admission to the tactics used to....'bully' into silence. of course, just my observation and opinion.
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hannah_b
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I can think of only one other case where family have been so unwilling to share accurate information about their missing loved ones and so hostile to people wanting to get to the bottom of things and come up with new facts, and that is the McStay missing family case.
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citigirl
Brockton, MA
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Snowy wrote: <quoted text> i, as an ANONYMOUS poster, have not accused the SBD and the authorities of wrongdoing, nor have i accused Fred Murray of wrongdoing. Renner doesn't have to attach his name, in fact. Neither have I ever accused anyone.
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Snowy
Charlotte Hall, MD
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citigirl wrote: <quoted text>Neither have I ever accused anyone. correct -you have not accused anyone!
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Since: Mar 13
Woodsville, NH
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Renner's latest:
Past is Prologue There are two great mysteries surrounding the disappearance of Maura Murray and I believe they are connected.
1. Where is Maura? 2. Why did she drive into New Hampshire to begin with?
To be clear, I am not suggesting Fred knows the answer to question #1.
But I do believe he has a good idea about the answer to question #2.
Solve #2 and you get closer to figuring out #1.
I've worked on a couple political campaigns in the past. One of my mentors ran his own "crisis management" firm. I know a little bit about public perception. Enough to know that it's turned on Fred and his family. And I think that's distracting from the ultimate goal: to find Maura.
If I was consulting with the Murrays, I would strongly suggest that now is the time to get out in front of this story. Some lies were made to police and media in the beginning. Some odd things happened the weekend before Maura disappeared. Come clean and move on.
What would work best is a video interview with Fred where he responds to some of these tough questions. Let's hear it in his words. Put it up on YouTube.
Specifically:
- What was the purpose of his visit to Amherst the weekend before Maura disappeared? - What was the purpose of the $4,000 he withdrew from the bank? What happened to the money? - Who was at the bar before the party? - What is known about the party Maura attended that night? - Why did Maura return to his hotel after the party? - What happened at the hotel? What was said? What occurred? - What hours did he work at the hospital the following day? - What did Maura intend to do about the credit card fraud charges and her nursing career?
Honest answers to these questions would put an end to many of these silly conspiracy theories that muddy the waters. And, frankly, after such blatant lies, some kind of explanation is owed to the tax payers who funded the search for Maura in 2004.
Discuss....
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hannah_b
Sweden
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Some tentative answers (and additional questions) to above questions: - FM was in Amherst to help plan MMīs departure. - The 4G was to help her disappear. - Kate M and MMīs secret boyfriend were said to have been at the bar with FM and MM. - Nothing is known about the party except Sara A were allegedly so intoxicated she passed out and Kate M said she doesnīt remember anything about who was there. Quite young for developping Alzheimer. True or intended to take the heat off of her? Kate Mīs male cousin along with KM reportedly accompanied MM back to her dorm. MM is rumored to have been raped at the party. - MM went to FMīs hotel to tell him something, possibly the alleged rape. Rape victims are known to shower extensively because they feel dirty. Did MM use the shower in FMīs hotel room? Did she shower in her dorm before going to the hotel? That would explain the missing hour before she crashed the Corolla. - FM might have given her the rumored black eye when he found out about her crashing her new car. He is reported to have a hot temperament. - FM supposedly got off his work schedule at 11 pm Monday night. MM was supposed to call him at 8 pm to discuss the insurance paperwork. We have also been told he wasnīt able to take private calls at work due to cell phones interfering with medical equipment and such. How was she supposed to reach him? - According to poster Looking4AMoose who is a RN, Mauraīs nursing career was out the window with the cc fraud. The School of Nursing has itīs own set of rules that differ from UMass regulations, and are a lot harsher. Even so, there must have been something bigger to make her take off like she did, and I wonder if it was the Vasi hit. I didnīt originally put much stock in the Vasi theory, but Iīve lately come to find it more likely. What was she going to do about the cc fraud? Probably nothing, I think she had bigger issues in her mind, Vasi or something else.
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hannah_b
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