Kierkegaard
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Ridiculous wrote: <quoted text> Bill, I think your question is well posed and an excellent one. I orinally found this forum while researching the CRVK. I have studied serial killers for some time and I'm fairly knowledgeable about most of the cases that have happened on a global scale for the last fifty years or more. My interest is the psychological aspect of what creates these kinds of behaviors. I am fascintated with how some people are able to take the traumas, tragedies or just plain old horrific elements of their lives and use them to become more empathetic human beings, yet some, become monsters. There is a debate amongst those that research this about whether it is innate or a chosen behavior. Nature or nurture. Plenty of evidence suggests that some are born this way and some have been created through a lifetime of abuse, neglect etc. <snip> I was convinced, based on my research, when I first came here that Maura was abducted. I hope that in stating the following, I haven't disqualified myself in answering to the specifics of your request; I believe the odds are very good that she took off or succumbed to the elements in the woods. your interest and depth of knowledge is greater than mine. at best, if there were indicators that she was abducted (and there seemingly are not), then a profiler could narrow the field. the nugget of interest to me was, and is, that someone could "disappear" in such a short window of time; at least that's how the original news reports made it seem. when other pieces of information are inserted by way of speculation and are combined with attempts to verify details and facts, then the picture is broadened and opens up to any number of probable or improbable scenarios. that is a reasonable approach. i cannot commit to any scenario because there are few verified facts that are public knowledge about MM's personal information such as her social relationships and details about the last weeks and days prior to her disappearance are actively hidden. that said, the core group pushing The All American Girl theme is on record supporting abduction to this very day. known players pinpoint any and all residents around the rural NH road where her car was found. to answer BillNH, then, the force behind the abduction theory was and is pushed forward by MM's family and "loyal" representatives. they persist in targeting NH residents in and around the presumed physical area of her disappearance, and disregard the motivation for her running away from her family, her education and her social life. and run, she did. to where? to whom? with whom? and why?
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Air Cav
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mcsmom
Vernon Rockville, CT
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Here's what I found on her Stop and Shop card back in 2011. I spoke to Stop and Shop back when Renner posted it on his forum, I think in July 2011 and they verified it was her card via the number on it.
mcsmom Bolton, CT Reply »|Report Abuse|Judge it!|#7391Jan 3, 2012 Judged:1 I blew up the original pic of the inside of Maura's car, in which you can see what appears to be a ?sunglass/eyeglass case, and the folded napkins.
Her Stop N Shop card found in the vehicle was opened in 2002, and never used, left in the car like this just doesn't fit the profile of someone who's very organized.
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Ridiculous
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SnowyB wrote: <quoted text> your interest and depth of knowledge is greater than mine. at best, if there were indicators that she was abducted (and there seemingly are not), then a profiler could narrow the field. the nugget of interest to me was, and is, that someone could "disappear" in such a short window of time; at least that's how the original news reports made it seem. when other pieces of information are inserted by way of speculation and are combined with attempts to verify details and facts, then the picture is broadened and opens up to any number of probable or improbable scenarios. that is a reasonable approach. i cannot commit to any scenario because there are few verified facts that are public knowledge about MM's personal information such as her social relationships and details about the last weeks and days prior to her disappearance are actively hidden. that said, the core group pushing The All American Girl theme is on record supporting abduction to this very day. known players pinpoint any and all residents around the rural NH road where her car was found. to answer BillNH, then, the force behind the abduction theory was and is pushed forward by MM's family and "loyal" representatives. they persist in targeting NH residents in and around the presumed physical area of her disappearance, and disregard the motivation for her running away from her family, her education and her social life. and run, she did. to where? to whom? with whom? and why? Very well said Snowy. I agree with your assesment. ; )
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mcsmom
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Reposting. I found this info by giving Stop and Shop the number on the card, back in July 2011. There was no email associated with it, and there were no gas points back then. mcsmom Bolton, CT Reply »|Report Abuse|Judge it!|#7391Jan 3, 2012 Judged:1 I blew up the original pic of the inside of Maura's car, in which you can see what appears to be a ?sunglass/eyeglass case, and the folded napkins. Her Stop N Shop card found in the vehicle was opened in 2002, and never used, left in the car like this just doesn't fit the profile of someone who's very organized.
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SnowyB wrote: <quoted text> your interest and depth of knowledge is greater than mine. at best, if there were indicators that she was abducted (and there seemingly are not), then a profiler could narrow the field. the nugget of interest to me was, and is, that someone could "disappear" in such a short window of time; at least that's how the original news reports made it seem. when other pieces of information are inserted by way of speculation and are combined with attempts to verify details and facts, then the picture is broadened and opens up to any number of probable or improbable scenarios. that is a reasonable approach. i cannot commit to any scenario because there are few verified facts that are public knowledge about MM's personal information such as her social relationships and details about the last weeks and days prior to her disappearance are actively hidden. that said, the core group pushing The All American Girl theme is on record supporting abduction to this very day. known players pinpoint any and all residents around the rural NH road where her car was found. to answer BillNH, then, the force behind the abduction theory was and is pushed forward by MM's family and "loyal" representatives. they persist in targeting NH residents in and around the presumed physical area of her disappearance, and disregard the motivation for her running away from her family, her education and her social life. and run, she did. to where? to whom? with whom? and why? I hope some of that core group can chime in here. But there are others who are not part of the core who, like Redic initially, believe in the murder/abduction scenario as well. I hope when they do speak up, it is something of substance. The fact that MM's case is on the NHCCU and LE has put a lot of hours in on this case are not compelling evidence of murder, for me. Please keep in mind, future posters, that what is out there for information now does not convince me, so what convinced you?
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BillNH wrote: <quoted text> I hope some of that core group can chime in here. But there are others who are not part of the core who, like Redic initially, believe in the murder/abduction scenario as well. I hope when they do speak up, it is something of substance. The fact that MM's case is on the NHCCU and LE has put a lot of hours in on this case are not compelling evidence of murder, for me. Please keep in mind, future posters, that what is out there for information now does not convince me, so what convinced you? it would be refreshing for someone of the mind that murder/abduction was MM's fate to step up and accept your honest appeal for an exchange of ideas. i am hopeful. in fact, the overly-dramatic accusations made that conversation is being intentionally squelched are not valid, and the repetition of that claim is tiresome.
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Habs
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BillNH wrote: <quoted text> I hope some of that core group can chime in here. But there are others who are not part of the core who, like Redic initially, believe in the murder/abduction scenario as well. I hope when they do speak up, it is something of substance. The fact that MM's case is on the NHCCU and LE has put a lot of hours in on this case are not compelling evidence of murder, for me. Please keep in mind, future posters, that what is out there for information now does not convince me, so what convinced you? Bill, I think the dogs losing Mauras scent just down the road lead some to believe that she was abducted although many here know the scent trail results are sketchy at best. Combine that with the process of elimination on the other potential theories. Suicide-she left signs that she was planning to return, family and friends saying no way,..... Succumbing to the elements-no body being found after 9 years. Running away-hurting her family all these years, missing her mothers funeral,..... This is just my opinion and I'm not saying that I agree with any of this but I can see the abduction theorists believing most of this. Personally I think she was abducted but only because imo the odds favor this but with the lack of information I continue to be open to all theories.
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Habs
Kirkland, Canada
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BillNH wrote: <quoted text> I hope some of that core group can chime in here. But there are others who are not part of the core who, like Redic initially, believe in the murder/abduction scenario as well. I hope when they do speak up, it is something of substance. The fact that MM's case is on the NHCCU and LE has put a lot of hours in on this case are not compelling evidence of murder, for me. Please keep in mind, future posters, that what is out there for information now does not convince me, so what convinced you? Also you have the red truck, rag in the tailpipe, local gossip and conspiracy theories to add to the mix.
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hannah_b
Sweden
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I think the All American Girl image the family pushed so very hard for has done this case a lot of damage right from the get go. It lead people to believe MM was a "good girl" kind of person with no reason to be discontent with her life, and her disappearance therefor was completely out of characther and a total mystery that could not be explained other than by a dirtbag took her. If people had known from the start she had some serious issues in her life and had reason to want out, other options besides murder would have gotten more credibility in public perception. Instead, family did everything they could to steer the public away from anything that would point in other directions than abduction-murder.
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Habs wrote: <quoted text> Bill, I think the dogs losing Mauras scent just down the road lead some to believe that she was abducted although many here know the scent trail results are sketchy at best. Combine that with the process of elimination on the other potential theories. Suicide-she left signs that she was planning to return, family and friends saying no way,..... Succumbing to the elements-no body being found after 9 years. Running away-hurting her family all these years, missing her mothers funeral,..... This is just my opinion and I'm not saying that I agree with any of this but I can see the abduction theorists believing most of this. Personally I think she was abducted but only because imo the odds favor this but with the lack of information I continue to be open to all theories. the caveat, to my way of thinking, is that she left under suspicious circumstances following a dramatic episode at work, a car crash, and setting off to NH in winter in an unreliable vehicle. had she told someone / anyone that she was planning time away, a visit to / with friends, or updated her family, then it would be natural to attribute her disappearance to foul play. otherwise, as i previously said, questions remain about her relationships that might have prompted her to run from her obligations, her family, her work and her academics. indeed, there was ongoing and unresolved trouble in her life at the time of her disappearance. this still doesn't mean foul play didn't happen, but it's simplistic to attribute her disappearance to circumstances only at the site of crash in NH, especially when she refused assistance at that location, at least according to the SBD.
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hannah_b wrote: I think the All American Girl image the family pushed so very hard for has done this case a lot of damage right from the get go. It lead people to believe MM was a "good girl" kind of person with no reason to be discontent with her life, and her disappearance therefor was completely out of characther and a total mystery that could not be explained other than by a dirtbag took her. If people had known from the start she had some serious issues in her life and had reason to want out, other options besides murder would have gotten more credibility in public perception. Instead, family did everything they could to steer the public away from anything that would point in other directions than abduction-murder. i just replied before reading your post....and agree that not only was a disservice done by vigorously boosting her image, but in doing so, suspicion was created as to why this family felt it necessary to do so. clearly, the global concept that only "good girls" get media attention would not have been thought through during the initial days and weeks in the midst of a desperate search for one's daughter / sister. and now, what is now known about MM is not particularly scandalous, anyway. not only do they paint her as angelic, but paint strangers and authorities as devil / dirtbags.
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Habs
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hannah_b wrote: I think the All American Girl image the family pushed so very hard for has done this case a lot of damage right from the get go. It lead people to believe MM was a "good girl" kind of person with no reason to be discontent with her life, and her disappearance therefor was completely out of characther and a total mystery that could not be explained other than by a dirtbag took her. If people had known from the start she had some serious issues in her life and had reason to want out, other options besides murder would have gotten more credibility in public perception. Instead, family did everything they could to steer the public away from anything that would point in other directions than abduction-murder. Good point Hannah.
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Habs
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SnowyB wrote: <quoted text> the caveat, to my way of thinking, is that she left under suspicious circumstances following a dramatic episode at work, a car crash, and setting off to NH in winter in an unreliable vehicle. had she told someone / anyone that she was planning time away, a visit to / with friends, or updated her family, then it would be natural to attribute her disappearance to foul play. otherwise, as i previously said, questions remain about her relationships that might have prompted her to run from her obligations, her family, her work and her academics. indeed, there was ongoing and unresolved trouble in her life at the time of her disappearance. this still doesn't mean foul play didn't happen, but it's simplistic to attribute her disappearance to circumstances only at the site of crash in NH, especially when she refused assistance at that location, at least according to the SBD. Absolutely and when taken as a whole it strengthens the other possibilities aside from abduction.
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I've refrained all day from commenting in hopes that someone in the core group would answer Bill's interesting and well thought out post but so far only one from the group has shown up and then it was only to mention the Stop and Shop card. I was really hoping that someone might explain why they thought she was murdered and why the people that live nearby the accident scene have been blamed all these years. It's sad that they can show such dislike and disgust for people that they've never met yet refuse to explain why they feel that way.
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SnowyB wrote: <quoted text> your interest and depth of knowledge is greater than mine. at best, if there were indicators that she was abducted (and there seemingly are not), then a profiler could narrow the field. the nugget of interest to me was, and is, that someone could "disappear" in such a short window of time; at least that's how the original news reports made it seem. when other pieces of information are inserted by way of speculation and are combined with attempts to verify details and facts, then the picture is broadened and opens up to any number of probable or improbable scenarios. that is a reasonable approach. i cannot commit to any scenario because there are few verified facts that are public knowledge about MM's personal information such as her social relationships and details about the last weeks and days prior to her disappearance are actively hidden. that said, the core group pushing The All American Girl theme is on record supporting abduction to this very day. known players pinpoint any and all residents around the rural NH road where her car was found. to answer BillNH, then, the force behind the abduction theory was and is pushed forward by MM's family and "loyal" representatives. they persist in targeting NH residents in and around the presumed physical area of her disappearance, and disregard the motivation for her running away from her family, her education and her social life. and run, she did. to where? to whom? with whom? and why? Very well said Snowy.
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whiston
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Hi mcsmom and all.Was there ever a stop n shop in Hanson M.A.Did Mr Murray own the Saturn in 2002.take care philip
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does anyone have a descriptive word for this mentality? i'm at a loss. discuss?
**I just watched the show about Maura and I feel for the father, Im so sorry. I do wish there could be a ariel birds eye view of the area and if we were allowed, look in each house in the area. Also it dosent seem that they investigated the bus driver very much? He was afterall the last one to see her. When it comes to missing persons the law should be over ruled and be able to go into peoples houses. Very sorry for your missing daughter, praying for her safe return.**- Adam August 12, 2013
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SnowyB wrote: does anyone have a descriptive word for this mentality? i'm at a loss. discuss? **I just watched the show about Maura and I feel for the father, Im so sorry. I do wish there could be a ariel birds eye view of the area and if we were allowed, look in each house in the area. Also it dosent seem that they investigated the bus driver very much? He was afterall the last one to see her. When it comes to missing persons the law should be over ruled and be able to go into peoples houses. Very sorry for your missing daughter, praying for her safe return.**- Adam August 12, 2013 And TeeJay's response was just as idiotic. I will never understand that kind of thinking, or lack of thinking, period. It is very easy to sacrifice someone else's rights. They have no clue of the implications.
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