just me
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> I'm sure you know that I was being sarcastic. I have no problem whatsoever with GLBT persons. --- What really matters is that Maura Murray is missing. I don't give a hoot about Silkyboxerz personal life. I do care that her forum posts on other sites are being used to poke fun at her. That's idiotic and prejudiced. No, I don't like the idea of anyone poking fun at someone, anyone....I'm not too sure I can recall many doing that with Beth. I just thought it was "mean" for you to say what you did, b/c there were no clouds going over, noone was about to say anything, at least I di not see it coming until you.
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just me
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Um. Maybe you should not have brought it up at ALL, then, eh? Instead of mentioning on a PUBLIC TOPIX FORUM 'oh did you see the forums that silkyboxerz visited! omg! bizarre!'. You brought it up. You mentioned it repeatedly on Topix. But I should be more discreet. Logic - lacking. I NEVER ONCE said ANYTHING OF THE SORT! I would not bring that up, ever. You are wrong.
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just me
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She's wrong everyone. I hope she's not just trying to make me look bad when she says the below: Instead of mentioning on a PUBLIC TOPIX FORUM 'oh did you see the forums that silkyboxerz visited! omg! bizarre!'. You brought it up. You mentioned it repeatedly on Topix. But I should be more discreet. Logic - lacking.
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Snowy
Gloucester, MA
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one more time. it is unknown how this person bears any credibility to be quoted as an "investigator" to the disappearance of MM, regardless of sexual orientation. the history of the original MMM forum is known to limit information about MM's life before her disappearance; her father dismisses any relevance to important relationships, choices and actions she may have taken prior to her disappearance, and there has been a deluge of misinformation and lies by omission over so many years that it is hard to determine fact from fiction. the only reliable source is the official investigation.
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just me
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ok, I guess I can see better here. But honestly, when I replied to Wowzer, It was inuendo to me, assuming I knew what she was getting at. I am sometimes the last to realize. My bad. I'm excused. I hope. Are we good now? Hope so, I have no problems with you, just wish you hadn't outright flat out said what you did. It would have flown over many heads.
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Wowzer the real one wrote: <quoted text> Did you ever see the forums/sites that she frequented? Paris/Just me: Sorry, I almost missed this one, yes, I did and wow is all I can say to both. I stumbled upon them when I found out from her parents that Beth had died and then they disconected the phone el pronto. Mysterious...... Snowy wrote: <quoted text> in a word, bizarre. and they worshipped her; still do. zero credibility as an "investigator"...jmo . Thought I would quote the posts in question. This is all in regards to silkyboxerz, a former moderator of a MMM forum (I think?) who is unfortunately now deceased (if you ask Snowy, that's 'supposedly' deceased.) I was curious so I googled silkyboxerz and found the 'offensive' posts. I said I would eat crow if the posts she made were relevant. Snowy told me to eat crow. Can anyone explain how her sexual preference is relevant - to anyone other than a homophobe, that is.
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just me
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Wow. Just.....wow. Did you not read my post at all? I'm not expending any more energy, however slight, to discuss this as you are not grasping the issue at hand. No, I get it. The posts don't come up as fast as you send them you know and I did not see it yet. I get it, it's ok.
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Snowy wrote: <quoted text> info. once linked found to be offensive. jmo. eat crow. No, sweetheart. That's not proof to a non-bigot. I AM sick of reading your constant bitching and moaning. GET OVER IT. Don't make homophobic remarks, and I won't call you out on it. Now, you used to post rationally (years ago). I don't know what happened, but I'm done watching you monopolize this thread with your drama and b.s. I mean, I hate to be crude or crass - unlike yourself - but, I believe you are an older woman - spare me the drama. Please. It's trite.
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: Wowzer the real one wrote: <quoted text> Did you ever see the forums/sites that she frequented? Paris/Just me: Sorry, I almost missed this one, yes, I did and wow is all I can say to both. I stumbled upon them when I found out from her parents that Beth had died and then they disconected the phone el pronto. Mysterious...... <quoted text> Thought I would quote the posts in question. This is all in regards to silkyboxerz, a former moderator of a MMM forum (I think?) who is unfortunately now deceased (if you ask Snowy, that's 'supposedly' deceased.) I was curious so I googled silkyboxerz and found the 'offensive' posts. I said I would eat crow if the posts she made were relevant. Snowy told me to eat crow. Can anyone explain how her sexual preference is relevant - to anyone other than a homophobe, that is. How is ANY of this relevant to anything? I'm openly gay, couldn't care less what anyone here might think about that. I don't know this dead woman or anything about her, but this is crazy. Can we go back to talking about the rag in the tailpipe now?:-\
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just me
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I wish I could tell you why, Simply, but I can't, I don't dare. But it might matter in some ways. Let's just please stop now. I was just so taken back when my friend died and PI's contacted me. It was scary to say the least. I hope you understand
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just me wrote: ok, I guess I can see better here. But honestly, when I replied to Wowzer, It was inuendo to me, assuming I knew what she was getting at. I am sometimes the last to realize. My bad. I'm excused. I hope. Are we good now? Hope so, I have no problems with you, just wish you hadn't outright flat out said what you did. It would have flown over many heads. That may be so, I concede. I still don't think it gives anyone carte blanche to post snidely, in the hopes that it won't be picked up on. But, I do get your point. I looked it up - thinking it was relevant. Wrong. At least, IMO. Snowy still says it IS relevant. I'd love for someone to explain to me the relevance of sexual orientation, to this.
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just me
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Paris/Just me: Sorry, I almost missed this one, yes, I did and wow is all I can say to both. I stumbled upon them when I found out from her parents that Beth had died and then they disconected the phone el pronto. Mysterious...... Mysterious that the parents disconnected the phone right after my call to say happy belated Christmas to Beth.I know for a fact they stayed there for 2 weeks by speaking to the caretaker for her apartments.
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Snowy
Gloucester, MA
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> No, sweetheart. That's not proof to a non-bigot. I AM sick of reading your constant bitching and moaning. GET OVER IT. Don't make homophobic remarks, and I won't call you out on it. Now, you used to post rationally (years ago). I don't know what happened, but I'm done watching you monopolize this thread with your drama and b.s. I mean, I hate to be crude or crass - unlike yourself - but, I believe you are an older woman - spare me the drama. Please. It's trite. your panties/boxers are in a knot, sir/madame. quoting you: "GET OVER IT". no homophobic remarks were made. GET OVER YOURSELF. in reality, only statements brought forward by the official investigation have bearing on truth, facts and about MM's disappearance. i, personally, consider all the chatter, i.e. countless thousands of posts over many years, to be opinion-based and of questionable value.
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Snowy
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Oh wait - so maybe it's a mass conspiracy! Your word isn't dogma to me. So simply saying 'eat crow' only shows that you are apparently that affected by silky being (gasp!) a lesbian. O.M.G.!!! A real, honest-to-goodness lesbian! A lesbian. Who posted on (clutching pearls)- lesbian forums!!!!! No wonder you were so appalled, Snowy. you offered to eat crow. eat crow. :)
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hannah_b
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: Wowzer the real one wrote: <quoted text> Did you ever see the forums/sites that she frequented? Paris/Just me: Sorry, I almost missed this one, yes, I did and wow is all I can say to both. I stumbled upon them when I found out from her parents that Beth had died and then they disconected the phone el pronto. Mysterious...... <quoted text> Thought I would quote the posts in question. This is all in regards to silkyboxerz, a former moderator of a MMM forum (I think?) who is unfortunately now deceased (if you ask Snowy, that's 'supposedly' deceased.) I was curious so I googled silkyboxerz and found the 'offensive' posts. I said I would eat crow if the posts she made were relevant. Snowy told me to eat crow. Can anyone explain how her sexual preference is relevant - to anyone other than a homophobe, that is. Silky being gay and participating in online lesbian communities was known and commented on years ago. I donīt have any problems with people being gay, I have friends that are, but I canīt see how her or anyone else being gay or not is relevant to Mauraīs case. Some of Silkyīs actions (like the bobble head doll) and her entire involvment with the case really was bizarre, but has nothing to do with her being gay. Guess I have to go eat some crow now.
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Snowy
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Respectfully - in regards to 'any proof or should we just take your word for it, yet again'? I'd like to ask that precise question of Snowy, in regards to Silky - and the exact relevance of what forums she posted on, prior to death. Please, someone, Bill (who I consider a rational voice of reason 99% of the time, even when I don't agree with him)-- please explain to me how Silkyboxerz posts on any forums, lesbian or straight or whatever - is relevant. I'd really appreciate your take on this. you're so slow....so let's try again: 1) "Silky" is often quoted and referenced as an original source for, and reporter of investigational information relative to the disappearance of MM. 2) "Silky's" credentials to qualify her investigational work are either lacking/unreported/or absent. 3) much of the information "Silky" has reported is of questionable value in terms of verified facts, imo.
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Snowy
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hannah_b wrote: <quoted text> Silky being gay and participating in online lesbian communities was known and commented on years ago. I donīt have any problems with people being gay, I have friends that are, but I canīt see how her or anyone else being gay or not is relevant to Mauraīs case. Some of Silkyīs actions (like the bobble head doll) and her entire involvment with the case really was bizarre, but has nothing to do with her being gay. Guess I have to go eat some crow now. that's what i said. bizarre. and that's my opinion, as well.
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Det Columbo wrote: <quoted text> You are so right. Along with the entries missing from the log between 6:10 and 7:27 John Do you have an inkling who picked up Maura that night? You've cryptically indicated on this thread who you believe might be complicit in her disappearance. Are you still of that opinion?
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Oh wait - so maybe it's a mass conspiracy! Your word isn't dogma to me. So simply saying 'eat crow' only shows that you are apparently that affected by silky being (gasp!) a lesbian. O.M.G.!!! A real, honest-to-goodness lesbian! A lesbian. Who posted on (clutching pearls)- lesbian forums!!!!! No wonder you were so appalled, Snowy. I come home after a nice day and find this mess. Your moniker is very fitting. First what I was referring to had nothing to do with lesbians but more to do with bizarre behaviour. And I also wasn't referring to just a lesbian site either. I couldn't care less who's a lesbian and who isn't.That has nothing to do with anything. Simply Sarcasm you were the one to mention she was a lesbian. Just read your post. It is you that's making a huge deal over it. And it's obvious that you aren't a new poster. You're an oldy with a different name or you wouldn't know all that you do. So lay off the lesbians because one of my best friends is gay and I couldn't care less. It's a persons actions and not their sexual preference that counts in life. Nuff said about this.
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Anne
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Simply Sarcasm wrote: <quoted text> Sorry lady, just because your older than me doesn't mean I'm going to take what you say as fact. So because she visited some lesbian websites - that's relevant? Why does everyone here seem to cowtow (on this, and other issues?) Maybe it's the threat of having to read through another diatribe about the evils perpetrated by some unnamed Ducks years and years ago - because I just recently re-read this thread, and there are about 790 ridiculous rants on just that very subject. Crickey. Thats great Simply Sarcasm, I was doing the very same thing! Slow day I guess and so was adding up the bashings in the past month..lol..I guess it can be termed bashing the bashings. Thank you.
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