Maura Murray

Posted in the Franconia Forum

Comments (Page 518)

Showing posts 10,341 - 10,360 of47,062
|
Go to last page| Jump to page:
findmaura

Hyannis, MA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10592
Jan 29, 2012
 

Judged:

5

3

3

Tom wrote:
Psychological and behavioral effects of child sexual abuse may include low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, fear, hostility, chronic tension, eating disorders, sexual dysfunction, self-destructive or suicidal behavior, post traumatic stress disorder, dissociation, multiple personality disorder, repeat victimization, running away, criminal behavior, academic problems, substance abuse and prostitution.1,3,8,17,19,23
Sexual abuse survivors are at higher risk for mental health and social functioning problems resulting from feelings of powerlessness, guilt, shame, stigmatization and low self-esteem.8,9 Powerlessness damages coping skills and reduces ability to protect oneself from further abuse.
Tom,
You cut and paste well.And I certainly agree there is a good CHANCE a close family member might have abused&even killed Maura but where is the EVIDENCE?You've put together a good scenerio but its all speculation.You seem convinced,Why?Also,calling a troubled girl a "scumbag" was way over the line.
Consider this

Hingham, MA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10593
Jan 29, 2012
 

Judged:

1

1

1

Athletes face tremendous pressure to excel and many feel pressure to achieve a certain body shape or weight that they see in the media or in fitness magazines. Athletes who compete in sports that emphasize appearance or require speed, agility and quickness (gymnastics, running, wrestling, figure skating or horse racing) are often more prone to developing an eating disorder than are non-athletes or athletes in sports that require muscle mass and bulk (football, power lifting, skiing).

or
EDR: Dr. Powers, can you give us a little background about the NCAA study?

Dr. Powers: The eating disorders field has long recognized a higher prevalence of eating disorders among athletes, particularly among elite athletes. Dr. Craig Johnson, Director of the Eating Disorders Program at Laureate Psychiatric Clinic and Hospital, Tulsa, was a driving force in the development of the collaborative study with the NCAA.
Consider this

Hingham, MA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10594
Jan 29, 2012
 

Judged:

2

1

1

Disordered eating — reported by one-third of female athletes in college — is just one element in a spectrum of health problems many confront, studies show.

Despite the opportunities that have opened up to women since Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972 banned sex discrimination in schools that receive federal money, universities report that an increasing number of these competitors are suffering from depression and anxiety disorders. They struggle to juggle practices, competitions and academic demands. Some are so overwhelmed that, despite their athletic talent, they drop their sports or even drop out of college. There are extreme cases of anorexia and suicide even among elite athletes.
mcsmom

Hebron, CT

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10595
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

4

2

2

WTH-the-original wrote:
<quoted text>
And I don't have s**t in my closet. But, I also wouldn't be running from my crashed car. And I also wouldn't have been drinking. Not everyone has skeletons in their closet. And if you do. I suggest if you want to "go public" to have people support your cause or want help. Be honest with them about what is happening. How long did many of us know that this didn't pass the smell test? Not only will it make the effort more realistic, it might get your daughter back sooner.
Bill
I wasn't asking you, we all know you don't even have morning breath.

Since: Nov 08

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10596
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

2

1

mcsmom wrote:
<quoted text>
I wasn't asking you, we all know you don't even have morning breath.
Well, you would be wrong again.

Bill
Captain Jack

East Weymouth, MA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10597
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

4

3

3

whitenoise wrote:
<quoted text>
I disagree, it is not Snowy wasting everyone's time. It was MMM, under the tight control of Helena Murray and Fred that wasted everyone's time by putting them on the wrong track and steering them in the wrong direction and by withholding information and by outright lying. They were more interested in coverup than in finding Maura.
Give it up the MMM site has been offline almost twice as long as it was online, and half as long as you people have been here on Topix. You need to take responsibility for your own obsessive behavior. Only then can you begin to conquer it.

(It went online Nov. 16 of 2006 and offline June 12, 2008) Topix started not long before, so it has been up almost four years vs. less than two for MMM)

“"CONFUSION CENTRAL"”

Since: Dec 11

Franconia NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10598
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

4

4

3

WTH-the-original wrote:
<quoted text>
And I don't have s**t in my closet. But, I also wouldn't be running from my crashed car. And I also wouldn't have been drinking. Not everyone has skeletons in their closet. And if you do. I suggest if you want to "go public" to have people support your cause or want help. Be honest with them about what is happening. How long did many of us know that this didn't pass the smell test? Not only will it make the effort more realistic, it might get your daughter back sooner.
Bill
Yes Bill You are the type of guy who doesn't hide his skeletons in the Closet....

He buries them in the forest.!

John

“"CONFUSION CENTRAL"”

Since: Dec 11

Franconia NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10599
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

5

3

3

Tom wrote:
I want all you Fred Murray groupies out tomorrow. Tonight we are going to talk about Sexual molestation and eating disorders. Since we all went to feel bad for Maura's eating disorder I would like to show you how she might have developed one. Now as I mentioned that her father has been the biggest player in all this, and how her father "didn't think the past didn't matter to her disappareance" I think he may have been a player in her eating disorder.
Just type in google " Sexual molestation and eating disorders"
Heres one:
In my eating disorder practice, 40 to 60 percent of the men and women who come to therapy for an eating problem have been sexually or physically abused.“It was my father’s best friend.”“It was my father.”“It was my brother.”“It was my mother's boyfriend.”“It was my mother.”“And so I starved myself.”“And so I binged and purged.”“And so I got fat.”“And so I started using laxatives.
I need his defenders out tomorrow.
TOM TOM is in the house....so We have to leave.....I don't think so.!

John
Tom

Chesterfield, MO

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10600
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

3

2

2

findmaura wrote:
<quoted text>
Tom,
You cut and paste well.And I certainly agree there is a good CHANCE a close family member might have abused&even killed Maura but where is the EVIDENCE?You've put together a good scenerio but its all speculation.You seem convinced,Why?Also,calling a troubled girl a "scumbag" was way over the line.
If you would like me to apologize for calling her a scumbag I will. However if my friend stole my cc number and used it without me knowing it I would call them a scumbag. It really is amazing how we make excuses for her actions but what about all the other people out there committing crimes? I don't see you sticking up for them.
Tom

Chesterfield, MO

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10601
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

2

2

1

findmaura wrote:
<quoted text>
Tom,
You cut and paste well.And I certainly agree there is a good CHANCE a close family member might have abused&even killed Maura but where is the EVIDENCE?You've put together a good scenerio but its all speculation.You seem convinced,Why?Also,calling a troubled girl a "scumbag" was way over the line.
It is speculative. Just like calling her a trouble girl is speculative. How do you know she was really troubled? Did she tell you? Maybe she decided to become a thief. Most of all we have of this girl is speculation.

Now what we have from Maura shows a girl with many issues. You say she was stealing because of an eating disorder, and I say she developed the eating disorder from being sexual molested. Research shows their is a 50% chance of this happening. If her father didn't want to get into her issues before she went away raises my interest in his role in developing Maura's eating disorder.

Keep in mind Mr. Maura had no problem blaming other people for Maura's disappearance. He is very good at the blame game. If he honestly thought Maura's problems developed at school he would have pointed his finger at the colleges. If the "athlete" eating disorder approach is what you want to use, than Fred would have blamed the schools for this. He didn't bring up her eating disorder because maybe he didn't want them to dig to far.
jwb

Lincoln, NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10602
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

3

2

1

Tom, I don't hear anyone defending Maura for her actions. There were some poor choices made and it is not that uncommon for a 21 year old to make poor choices. There is no excuse for stealing someones credit card.There are definitely issues and most of us here don't really know her family dynamics. To say Fred molested Maura without having any facts to back this up is no different than saying the SBS grabbed Maura and had his way.
I think it is more productive to keep piecing the information together to find out what actually happened.Everyone has skeletons in their closet and if you don't you are a liar or have no conscious.
It might be prudent to wait for more information to come out (facts) before making a judgement.

“"CONFUSION CENTRAL"”

Since: Dec 11

Franconia NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10603
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

4

4

2

The most We have about ANYONE on this forum is SPECULATION.

50% chance is 50% not 100%.

The odds are at least 50% that You are wrong. I am not saying I know the answer....but Tom neither do You with ANY CERTAINTY. You seem to be a speculative kind of person.

Just stating My take on the situation.

John
jwb

Lincoln, NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10605
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

2

2

1

Tom wrote:
<quoted text>
It is speculative. Just like calling her a trouble girl is speculative. How do you know she was really troubled? Did she tell you? Maybe she decided to become a thief. Most of all we have of this girl is speculation.
Now what we have from Maura shows a girl with many issues. You say she was stealing because of an eating disorder, and I say she developed the eating disorder from being sexual molested. Research shows their is a 50% chance of this happening. If her father didn't want to get into her issues before she went away raises my interest in his role in developing Maura's eating disorder.
Keep in mind Mr. Maura had no problem blaming other people for Maura's disappearance. He is very good at the blame game. If he honestly thought Maura's problems developed at school he would have pointed his finger at the colleges. If the "athlete" eating disorder approach is what you want to use, than Fred would have blamed the schools for this. He didn't bring up her eating disorder because maybe he didn't want them to dig to far.
Tom, you or no one else here on Topix has any idea what Fred shared with LE about Maura nor do you know what Fred was privy to.

Tom, it hasn't been even proven yet that she had an eating disorder.

Since: Nov 08

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10606
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

3

3

2

Det Columbo wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes Bill You are the type of guy who doesn't hide his skeletons in the Closet....
He buries them in the forest.!
John
Interesting. I guess no one believes that there are still people who just work hard everyday, take care of their kids, try to raise them right, and pay their bills and don't break the law. They don't steal credit card numbers, drink while they drive, drive into trees and then run from the accident scene. There are people who eschew drama in their lives to try to give stability in the family and be an example for their kids.

Bill
Tom

Chesterfield, MO

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10607
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

3

1

1

What the heck is this with all this talk about skeletons in the closet? What kind of talk is that? Its like saying someone can wrong society because there's a chance that you did as well.
Are you saying that people can't live a life of virtue? Are you saying that there are no decent people out there and everyone has a skeleton in their closet. Are you saying all College students are stealing cc numbers, and if they don't they have skeleton's in their closet.

Its amazing as the more garbage that comes out about this girl the less virtue everyone else has by default? Whats next? She kills someone and then I have every one saying "Its not like you never thought about killing anyone before."

Since you guys are all about skeleton's in the closet and this thread is about the Mauras dissappearance lets start talking about Fred's skeletons.
jwb

Lincoln, NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10608
Jan 30, 2012
 
WTH-the-original wrote:
<quoted text>
Interesting. I guess no one believes that there are still people who just work hard everyday, take care of their kids, try to raise them right, and pay their bills and don't break the law. They don't steal credit card numbers, drink while they drive, drive into trees and then run from the accident scene. There are people who eschew drama in their lives to try to give stability in the family and be an example for their kids.
Bill
and eats granola
Tom

Chesterfield, MO

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10609
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

2

2

2

Det Columbo wrote:
The most We have about ANYONE on this forum is SPECULATION.
50% chance is 50% not 100%.
The odds are at least 50% that You are wrong. I am not saying I know the answer....but Tom neither do You with ANY CERTAINTY. You seem to be a speculative kind of person.
Just stating My take on the situation.
John
I agree it starts at 50%, then you add the fact that she is spiraling out of control the secret may come out. How can you get help from being molested by your father without turning him in? She can't get help, and talking to her father about this problem really can't help because he is the culprit. If Maura gets busted by the law she will eventually break down and tell LE that she is like this because of her father. Thats a pretty strong motive to whack your daughter.
jwb

Lincoln, NH

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10610
Jan 30, 2012
 
I think aftermath is in the house
Tom

Chesterfield, MO

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10611
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

3

2

2

WTH-the-original wrote:
<quoted text>
Interesting. I guess no one believes that there are still people who just work hard everyday, take care of their kids, try to raise them right, and pay their bills and don't break the law. They don't steal credit card numbers, drink while they drive, drive into trees and then run from the accident scene. There are people who eschew drama in their lives to try to give stability in the family and be an example for their kids.
Bill
When faced would a major moral decision. You must not ask yourself what would Jesus do? Instead ask what would Maura Murray do?
Tom

Chesterfield, MO

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10612
Jan 30, 2012
 

Judged:

1

1

1

mcsmom wrote:
<quoted text>
What's in your closet?
Forgive me for seeing the irony. But after we find out Maura Murray is found using a credit card number that isn't hers you make a play on words " Whats in your wallet?" from the Capital One Card commercial as "Whats in your closet."

Thats funny MCSMOM thats funny.

Tell me when this thread is updated: (Registration is not required)

Add to my Tracker Send me an email

Showing posts 10,341 - 10,360 of47,062
|
Go to last page| Jump to page:
Type in your comments below
Name
(appears on your post)
Comments
Characters left: 4000
Type the numbers you see in the image on the right:

Please note by clicking on "Post Comment" you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

33 Users are viewing the Franconia Forum right now

Search the Franconia Forum:
Topic Updated Last By Comments
COlumbos HOuse of SPam 4 hr Habs 546
Author James Renner's Cruel Online 'Ruse' 6 hr Red October 19
Surprise Fireball Streaks Across Stunning Night... (Jul '13) 9 hr Willy Lion 16
Who do you support for U.S. House in New Hampsh... (Oct '10) Sun Habs 25
New book questions Ayotte judgment in officer s... (Sep '09) Apr 19 Red October 92
"TO TELL THE TRUTH" The Quest for True Identities Apr 17 Pointless Endeavor 57
NH law keeps murder case liars on the hook forever (Jul '09) Apr 15 SPQR 13
•••
•••
•••

Franconia Jobs

•••
•••
•••

Franconia People Search

Addresses and phone numbers for FREE

•••

Personal Finance

Mortgages [ See current mortgage rates ]
•••